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Showing Love
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Ladies Class                                                                                                     June 14, 2004

Jennifer Austin

Showing Love to one another

 

1 John 4: 7-12

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.  In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.

 

      We were created out of God’s love, God sent Christ here out of love, and Christ suffered and died on the cross out of Love for us and the Father. Love is very important to God.  Love is the basis for the first two commandments:

 

      Mat 2:36-40 

      "Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?" And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.  This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.  On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets

 

      We are commanded to love. This is not a choice we have, we have to do it. Repeatedly we are told to love. So, what is ment by Love? What type of Love are we to have for one another? We are to show compassion, be kind, helping one another, respecting others, to give our lives for others. Christ was our example of Love. While he was here on earth, he shared food, cared and healed those who needed healing, dried the tears of family when lazerus was raised, comforted those who needed comforting with God’s word, sacrificing his life so that others would have life. He still continues to do this today through the word. We read some of the things he said and did. We can learn from his example.

 

      Loving is easy right? Well, it depends on who you are talking about. Let’s look back at his word and see who Christ was talking about when he told us to Love.

 

1)      We know we are to love God. He is to be number one in our lives. As a Christian we are to devote our lives to doing his will. Why? Because we love him. He is easy to love because he has been so good to us, our lives, our families, our material blessings, but most of all he gave us Christ so that we could be cleansed and reunited with him someday.

 

2)   We are to Love our fellow Christians.

       Eph 4:15-16  Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.

     

       We are to work together in the church so that is builds itself in love. Together. Not with bickering, gossiping, snickering, looking down at each other.

 

      1Pe 1:22  Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart,

      A sincere brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart? Are we loving our fellow Christians earnestly? Are we showing them the same love Christ would have shown? We are to be one body, we cannot be one body if we have conflicts and strife among us.

 

3)   We are also told to Love our Family. Not only our Spiritual family but our physical family.

 

      Tit 2:3  Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children,

 

      We are to love our husbands and our children. I find it easier to be nice to others outside of the home than I do inside the home sometimes. As a mother I have the daily job of caring and disciplining the children. Sometimes the discipline seems to outweigh the caring. Or so it seems. Have you ever noticed we are nicer to strangers than we are to our own families? We tend to hold grudges longer with those close to us. Maybe it is because we are closer to our family and get hurt easier by them, than we do strangers. They mean more to us yet they get treated harsher and more critical. We expect them to be better than we would others. The Lord says we are to love them. Treat them with kindness; show them daily that they are special to us. Don’t take them for granted. Don’t let a day go by without telling them we love them and how much they mean to us. We won’t be here forever, lets leave them with good thoughts of us. After all they are the ones who bring us so much joy in our lives. Treat them that way.

 

4)     Fourthly, we are to love our Neighbors.

 

      Mat 19:19   Honor your father and mother, and, You shall love your neighbor as            yourself." The second is this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is       no other commandment greater than these."

 

      Who are our neighbors? All those we come in contact with. Whether it be on the phone, at the store, on the road, at work, etc. We are to show kindness to all of those around us. The world should see that we are different from them. If they are hungry, sick, needing comfort, we are to help them. Jesus helped those who did not know him. So should we. We are not only to show love to those who are members or are in our household. We are to show love to all those we come in contact with. That they might see Christ in us.

 

      5) Lastly there is one more group of people we are told to Love. They are our            enemies.

            Luk 6:27 -35 "But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to           those   who hate you,  bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. To             one who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also, and from one who takes             way your cloak do not withhold your tunic either. Give to everyone who begs          from you, and from one who takes away your goods do not demand them back.       And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them. "If you love those             who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love      them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to   you? For even sinners do the same.  And if you lend to those from whom you            expect to receive,        what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to           get back the same amount.  But love your enemies, and do good, and lend,                    expecting nothing in       return, and your reward will be great, and you will be     sons of the Most High, for     he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.

 

Christ gave us his way to deal with our enemies. He knew that harsh feelings would only bring about more harsh feelings. Showing love will produce love, evil produces evil. When we return evil for evil we are allowing it into our hearts and we are no longer pure. When we return evil deeds with love, humility, kindness we continue to stay pure and we show the world that there is another way through Christ. We show Godly love through us.  

 

1Co 4:21   What do you wish? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love in a spirit of gentleness?

 

God could have come to us with a whip and demanded that we follow him. We would do it out of obedience but not love. God wanted love and deserves love after all that he has done for us.

 

Rom 5:8  but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

 

We were still sinners when God loved us. He loves all men not just the ones who love us.

 

Rom 13:10   Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.

 

If love does no wrong to a neighbor, why do we do everything except love. Love is the fulfilling of the Law.

God is Love, Let’s be a part of God and Love.